In Memory of Paul James Milonas
It is with deep sadness that we announce the passing of Paul Milonas, on December 23rd 2025, at the age of 67, after a courageous battle with cancer.
Paul was a loving and devoted husband, father, grandfather, and friend who found joy in life’s simple moments — a good cup of coffee , a shared laugh, and time spent with loved ones. He loved storytelling, travelling, fishing, hunting, golfing, watching Jonh Wayne and Star Wars movies on repeat and playing cards. In retirement from a distinguished career as a Corporal in the RCMP, he also enjoyed cooking, baking, and being part of the Tye Dyes softball team as well as The Navan Bowling League. Most of all, he cherished Sunday diners with his grandsons, as well as spending time with his family and friends.
Paul was always there, with open arms, gladly offering a helping hand to anyone in need. He was such an incredible, strong and proud man who has made such an impact on our lives.
Although our grief is profound, we know he has been reunited with the love of his life Carol Milonas (predeceased).
Born in Ottawa, he was the son of the late Denis Milonas and is survived by his mother Jeanne Milonas (Jack – predeceased). He was also a dearest son-in-law to William Boivin (predeceased) and Ellen Boivin (predeceased). He leaves in mourning his loving sisters Diane Milonas, Christina Milonas (John), Thérèse Kilmartin (Bob) and Pauline Milonas (Denis), as well as his adoring brother Richard Milonas (Line).
Paul will also be greatly missed by his daughter Tammy (Christian), his grandsons (Landon and Kayden), his best friend Brian (Judy), his son-in-law’s parents Anna-Marie and René Gagné as well as his sister-in-law Judy Turpin (Len). He will be fondly remembered by many nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, cousins, great nieces, great nephews, and dear friends, whom he loved and cared for deeply.
Many thanks and gratitude for all the care and compassion given to him by staff at the Ottawa General, especially the nurses, PSWs, doctors and teams working on the 7th floor in the patient clinical and cancer assessment units. Sincere thanks for all the attentive treatment given to him by all those from the Ottawa General Hematology team and the Palliative Care unit as well.
Family, friends and loved ones will be received at Heritage Funeral Complex, 1250 Trim Rd, Orleans, on Wednesday, January 14th, 2026 from 11:00 AM until 12:30 PM. A memorial service will follow in the Chapel at 12:30. Guests are invited to wear a little something red in honour of Paul, in representation of his passion for life and his 30 years of service in the RCMP. There will be a live stream of the service for those who are unable to attend in person and wish to do so virtually. In lieu of flowers, the family would greatly appreciate donations to the Canadian Cancer Society or donations toward a living memorial : Plant a tree in Paul’s honour.
We’ll miss his jokes, his “joie de vivre”, his need to dance no matter the occasion and the warmth he brought to every gathering. His love and the memories shared will stay with us forever and always.
« No one is ever really gone » – Luke Skywalker
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EN MÉMOIRE DE PAUL JAMES MILONAS
1958-2025
23/12/2025
C’est avec une profonde tristesse que nous annonçons le décès de Paul James Milonas, survenu le 23 décembre 2025, à l’âge de 67 ans, après une lutte courageuse contre le cancer.
Il était un époux, un père, un grand-père et un ami aimant et dévoué, qui trouvait le bonheur dans les plaisirs simples de la vie — une bonne tasse de café, un rire partagé et des moments passés avec ceux qu’il aimait. Il adorait raconter des histoires, voyager, pêcher, chasser, jouer au golf, regarder en boucle des films de John Wayne et de Star Wars, ainsi que jouer aux cartes. À la retraite, après une carrière remarquable à titre de caporal au sein de la GRC, il aimait également cuisiner, et faire partie de l’équipe de softball Tye Dyes ainsi que de la ligue de quilles de Navan. Il chérissait surtout les soupers du dimanche avec ses petits-fils, ainsi que le temps passé avec sa famille et ses amis.
Il était toujours présent, les bras ouverts, offrant volontiers son aide à quiconque en avait besoin. C’était un homme extraordinaire, fort et fier, qui a marqué nos vies d’une façon inoubliable. Bien que notre peine soit immense, nous savons qu’il a retrouvé l’amour de sa vie, Carol Milonas (prédécédée).
Né à Ottawa, il était le fils de feu de Denis Milonas et le beau-fils de feu de William et Ellen Boivin. Il laisse dans le deuil sa mère, Jeanne Milonas (Jack – prédécédé), ses sœurs Diane Milonas, Christina Milonas (John), Thérèse Kilmartin (Bob), et Pauline Milonas (Denis), son frère Richard Milonas (Line), sa fille Tammy (Christian), ses petits-enfants (Landon and Kayden), son meilleur ami Brian Miscampbell (Judy), les parents de son beau-fils, Anna-Marie and René Gagné, ainsi que sa belle-sœur Judy Turpin (Lens). Il restera aussi dans le tendre souvenir de ses nombreux neveux, nièces, tantes, oncles, cousins, petites-nièces, petits-neveux, ainsi que de chers amis, qu’il aimait profondément.
Nous souhaitons exprimer notre sincère reconnaissance pour tous les soins et la compassion accordés par le personnel de l’Hôpital général d’Ottawa, en particulier les infirmières, les préposés aux services de soutien à la personne, les médecins et les équipes des unités cliniques et d’évaluation du cancer du 7ᵉ étage. Un merci tout aussi sincère à l’ensemble du personnel des unités d’hématologie et de soins palliatifs de l’Hôpital général d’Ottawa pour les soins attentionnés qu’il a reçus.
La famille, les amis et les proches seront accueillis au Heritage Funeral Complex, 1250, chemin Trim, Orléans, le mercredi 14 janvier 2026, de 11 h à 12 h 30. Une cérémonie commémorative suivra à 12 h 30 à la chapelle. Les invités sont encouragés à porter une touche de rouge en son honneur, en symbole de sa passion pour la vie et de ses 30 années de service au sein de la GRC. La cérémonie sera diffusée en direct pour les personnes qui ne pourront être présentes en personne et qui souhaitent y assister virtuellement. Au lieu de fleurs, la famille serait très reconnaissante pour des dons à la Société canadienne du cancer ou des contributions à un mémorial vivant : planter un arbre honneur de Paul.
Ses blagues, sa joie de vivre, son besoin de danser en toute occasion et la chaleur qu’il apportait à chaque rassemblement nous manqueront profondément. Son amour et les souvenirs partagés resteront à jamais gravés dans nos cœurs.
« Personne ne disparaît vraiment » — Luke Skywalker
I have been fortunate enough to have known this entire family for more than 45 years. My wife Anne has literally grown up with them. Paul, his parents , whom I love dearly, and his siblings, each and every one is joyous and welcoming. A closer knit family there has seldom, ever been. My condolences to all.
Paul, you and Carol were our best friends. We shared dinners, cards, listening to the Eagles ad nauseum, laughing and trying to solve the world’s problems. We rented cottages together and just shared our lives with each other. Our world changed forever when we lost our precious Carol and now to lose you too is beyond heartbreaking. Our lives are emptier without you. We’re so thankful though that you’re back with your “girl” who you adored. We love you so very much Paul.
Finally at Peace.
My condolences to the immediate and extended family.
Paul was a great colleague when I worked with him at PMPD. He was a true professional and a friend to all.
I spoke with him a few months ago, our conversation reminded me of good memories of him at PMPD.
To the family: May the many joyful memories you have of Paul provide you with the courage to live your lives to the fullest and to his honour.
Pat Teolis
Paul, je me rappellerai de toi comme étant un homme simple, généreux et dévoué. Dévoué à sa famille, à ses collègues et amis ainsi qu’à ta carrière dont tu était tellement fier. En fin de parcours , tu a mené le combat contre la maladie avec courage, détermination et surtout avec un optimisme inspirant. Repose en paix mon ami. Nos plus sincères sympathies à toi Tammy ainsi qu’à toute la famille et ceux et celles affectés par le départ de notre ami Paul.
Paul, you will always be in our hearts. We had great times together. From growing up together as children to your yearly BBQs at your place. We had wonderful memories at the cottage with all the Patry’s, Miscampbell’s and Milonas’. My heart goes out to the whole family. Losing a loved one is very difficult. Know that you will never be forgotten and always loved.
Love Always, Mary- Lynne, Mike, April and Matthieu.
Our families go way back. We enjoyed and shared many celebrations, special moments and tears over the years. My heart goes out to Paul’s entire family during this deep time of sorrow. No one ever expects a loved one to leave this earth at such a young age. Paul, you are now free of pain. Forever in our heart and thoughts, RIP.
Our sincere condolences on behalf of the Violo family. We are thinking of you during this incredibly difficult time.
May you find comfort in the love and support of those around you, and in the cherished memories you hold close. We hope those memories bring you strength, peace, and solace in the days ahead.
With heartfelt sympathy,
The Violo Family
We first met Paul when we moved to Kamloops and he in turn introduced us to his wife Carol. Paul worked with my then husband Rudy Andreucci. Rudy lovingly referred to Paul as his little 🪳 cockroach. (You will have to ask them why) I remember calling 911 in a panicked because a bear had come into our back yard in the middle of the day and wouldn’t leave. 911 sent Paul. The two of us sat on the back deck. We looked at the bear and discussed various ideas of what we should do. In the end he decided we should just leave him alone and latter remove any food sources. Two days latter there was a bear trap in my back yard. He never went in…he was too smart for that.
Nos plus sincères condoléances à la famille Milonas, les amis proches ainsi qu’à Tammy et sa famille. Nos pensées sont avec vous tous.
Toutes mes sympathies à votre famille. C’était un bon vivant qui aimait la vie. Bon courage spécialement à sa fille , ses petits enfants, sa mère et ses soeurs et frères.
Mes sincères condoléances à la famille Milonas! Je garde de beaux souvenirs d’enfances avec vous tous! 🥰
I am deeply sorry for your loss Tammy. Your dad was an incredible man-loyal, loving and protective in every way. He always put family first and his strength and kindness touched everyone who knew him. Please know that I am here for you and you are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.
With love and sympathy he will be dearly missed and in my heart forever. Rest in peace my dear brother.
My sincere condolences to the Milonas family. Nothing I can say will ease your pain, but I am forever sorry for your loss. I worked with Paul at PMPD he was a great colleague and a friend to all. Rest in peace my friend.
Our sincere condoleances to ma tante Jeanne, Diane, Tina, Thérèse, Richard, Pauline and families. And to Paul’s daughter, Tammy and her family. ❤️
With thoughts and prayers,.
Allan and Diane (Hamelin) Radmore
Our deepest Sympathies to the family. We will miss him as a bowling buddy