In Memory of Jonathan Robert Bruce Bettles “Johnny”
18/04/2005 – 03/04/2025
It is with deep sorrow and heavy hearts that we announce the passing of our beloved Jonathan “Johnny” Bettles, who left us far too soon on April 3rd, 2025, at the age of 19, after a courageous battle with cancer (Grey Zone Lymphoma). Although Johnny was taken from this world much earlier than we could have ever imagined, his impact on everyone he encountered will resonate forever.
Born on April 18th, 2005, Johnny was a bright soul with boundless potential and a heart full of love. From a young age, he had an extraordinary ability to connect with others, offering kindness, humor, and unwavering support to everyone he met. Whether it was through his infectious laughter, his genuine spirit, or his radiant smile, Johnny left a lasting impression on the hearts of all who knew him.
Johnny had a deep passion for life. He loved hockey, construction, and spending time outdoors—whether it was fishing, hiking, four-wheeling, or skidooing. Always ready to embrace new experiences, he lived each day with an energy beyond his years. Johnny’s dreams were big, and his enthusiasm for the future was contagious to everyone around him.
More than anything, Johnny was deeply loved by his family and friends. He brought light into every room, making everyone feel special and cherished. His loss is immeasurable, but the love he gave to those around him will continue to shine brightly.
Johnny leaves behind his father, Barry Bettles; his mother, Sylvie Bourdeau; his sister, Catherine Bourdeau (Maxime Alarie); extended family and countless friends who will remember him for his warmth, generosity, and unwavering spirit. While he may no longer walk among us, his memory will live on through the stories, laughter, and love he shared.
We take solace in knowing that Johnny touched the lives of so many and will forever remain in our hearts.
A memorial service will be held on Monday, April 14th, 2025, at Heritage Funeral Complex, 1250 Trim Rd, Orléans, ON. Visitation will be from 10:00-11:30 AM, with the ceremony beginning at 11:30 AM, followed by a reception. We will gather to celebrate Johnny’s life and honor the beautiful person he was. In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations be made to CAR-T research at The Ottawa Hospital or Lymphoma Canada to continue the legacy of kindness and generosity that Johnny embodied.
Rest in peace, Johnny. You will never be forgotten, and your love will continue to guide us.
DONATION TO CAR-T THERAPY: https://tohf.crowdchange.co/47623
DONATION TO LYMPHOMA CANADA: https://www.lymphoma.ca/get-involved/donation-options/
“I’m so,so sorry for your loss. Please know that my heart aches for you and your family during this unimaginable time of grief.”
Jean-Pierre and Tina Seguin
Johnny, you were loved. You were a part of our neighbourhood; we saw you, we knew you and now we will miss you. Rest in peace knowing you made an impact on us and our family.
Johnny, you touched so many people and hearts during your short but active life. You lit up so many lives just by your presence,. Your friendly personality will never be forgotten. RIP Johnny.
Mon cher Jonathan,
Toi qui a partagé ton grand coeur, tes éclats de rire, ta douceur et tes passions avec toute notre grande famille tant aux rencontres de familiales, à la maison bleue que dans notre quotidien; nous te remercions d’avoir fait partie de nos vies. Tu as marqué chacun de nous à ta façon. Nous te tenons dans nos coeurs à tout jamais.
On t’aime
x xxxxxx xxxxx xxxxx
Josée Gagnon
Sending my deepest condolences to Barry & Sylvie. Thinking of you during this hard time.
Nous tenons à vous offrir nos sincères condoléances. La perte de votre enfant, ainsi
qu’un frère nous laisse sans mot.
Il a été et restera celui qui ensoleille vos souvenirs.
Repose en paix Jonathan.
On est de tout cœur avec vous.
William et sa famille offrons nos
plus sincères sympathies.
On est avec vous!
We are thinking of you all during this very sad time. Johnny was such a kind and funny soul who would help anyone. The hockey community is mourning his loss but know your friends are here for you anytime. X
We are all at a loss of a very kind, gentle loving boy that left this earth way too soon! We will cherish all the memories we have of Jon. Sylvie , Barry, Catharine and Max, our deepest condolences to yous. .love yous ! 💜
Barry, Sylvie and Family,
My heart breaks for you all. Johnny was an amazing young man with a great outlook on life and a smile that would light up the room. Cherish all the wonderful memories. Sending big hugs and love your way. I wish I could be with you all on Monday but know I am thinking of you all during this very difficult time.
Love, Kim
I am very happy to have spent quality time with Jonathan on our fishing trips together. We had alot of laughs & it really let me get to know this young boy that had a great out look on life.
He will always be missed by everyone in the family.
Our condolences to Sylvie, Barry,Catherine & Maxx
Barry, Sylvie and family,
We are devastated hearing about Jonathan’s passing. He touched so many lives and his memory will continue to shine everyday.
We hope you find strength in the love and support surrounding you.
The Cyrenne Family
Our Deepest condolences. We were lucky enough to of meet Jonathan.. he always had a smile on his face. Whether he was cutting the grass around the neighbourhood or working on the houses with his Dad. Or saying Hi to my grandson.
He will be truly missed. He’s a young man that you can never forget. RIP 🙏 The VanNeste Family
Sylvie, Barry, Catherine and Max, our hearts are with you as you cherish all the wonderful memories you have. Hold each other close and know that he will always be your angel. Love to all of you.
I’ve had the privilege of knowing Jonathan for the past few years; a wonderful, thoughtful young man, always willing to lend a helping hand. He will be missed and never forgotten. Repose en paix Jonathan.
My thoughts and prayers are with you: Sylvie, Barry, Catherine and Max.
Les mots me manquent…
Jonathan, mon cher voisin et ami de la famille . Ton beau sourire, ta belle personnalité, ton grand cœur, ta générosité et ton désir d’aider les autres et ton respect restera toujours gravé dans ma mémoire.
Nous sommes vraiment chanceux de t’avoir connu mon beau Jonny! 🤍 Un jeune homme inspirant! Merci d’avoir croisé nos chemins!
To you Sylvie, Barry and Catherine,
We are offering you our deepest condolences. We are here for you! ❤️Mélissa, Ben, Éléna et Xavier
Barry, Sylvie, and family,
No words can ever truly ease your pain, but may the love Johnny brought into this world continue to live on in every story, every laugh, and every cherished memory. Our hearts are with you, and we are sending you strength, courage, and comfort as you navigate through this sorrow. Please know that so many hearts are surrounding you, holding you up, during this incredibly difficult time.
Michel, Johanne and family
Mes plus sincères condoléances à toute la famille et les amis un jeune homme PARTI beaucoup trop tôt REST IN PEACE JONATAN veille sur nous tous.
We only had the honour of meeting Johnny a few times but we could tell he was a very special person. We are thinking of you all. May the love and joy he brought you throughout his life bring you comfort during this difficult time.
Our heartfelt condolences to Barry and his entire family at this time.The Bettles bunch will get through this.
R.I.P Jon
Kelly and Colin Shand xo
My sincere condolences for the lost of your precious son Barry and family.
Louise Lavictoire
Annabelle’s mother.
My condolences to Barry, Sylvie, Catherine and families.
À toute la famille de Jonathan,
J’ai connu Jonathan lors d’occasions avec la famille Côté-Maheux ai j’ai partagé quelques bons moments à discuter avec Jonathan et même si ce fut de courts moments j’ai quand même reconnu une personne honnête, ouverte et ayant une très belle âme, J’ai beaucoup apprécié Jonathan et je vous souhaite mes meilleurs sentiments et mes sincères condoléances.
Je regarderai toujours un excellent souvenir de Jonathan. Bon voyage mon cher Jonathan .
Jean-Pierre Valiquette
conjoint d’Ethel Côté
Toutes nos sympathies à toute la famille
On pense à vous.
Famille Julien
Rencontrer Jonathan a été un privilège pour notre famille. Il a touché nos cœurs par sa chaleur, son humour et son authenticité. Chaque moment passé avec lui était précieux. Jonathan avait une vieille âme, une sagesse tranquille qui dépassait de loin son âge.
Son départ laisse un vide immense, mais son souvenir vivra en nous. Il laisse derrière lui une empreinte profonde, marquée d’amour et de courage. Merci, Johnny, pour les moments, les aventures, les sourires. Tu nous manques déjà terriblement.
Nos plus sincères condoléances à Sylvie, Barry et famille.
Nos pensées vous accompagnent.
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Meeting Jonathan has been a privilege for our family. He touched our hearts with his warmth, humour and authenticity. Every moment spent with him was precious. Jonathan had an old soul, a quiet wisdom that far exceeded his age.
His departure leaves an immense void, but his memory will live on in all of us. He leaves behind him a deep imprint, marked by love and courage. Thank you Johnny for the moments, the adventures, the smiles, we already miss you terribly.
Our deepest condolences to Sylvie, Barry and family.
Our thoughts are with you.
Emile, Martine, Raphaëlle et Olivier
To Barry, Sylvie, Catherine and family, our heartfelt sympathies for your loss. We are thinking of you during these difficult times. We met this sweet young boy, he was about 5, and watched him grow into this beautiful, friendly young man. Johnny, we will always remember your sparkling kind eyes and your sense of humor, even during all the ordeals you had to go through. You were special!
Sylvie, I do not have words to express what I feel for you! I am so sorry for your loss. Deepest condolences to you, Barry, Catharine & your family. May your cherished memories help you through this painful time. Sending you hugs 💞💞💞
C’est avec une grande tristesse que nous avons appris le départ de Jonathan. C’était un garçon d’une gentillesse remarquable, avec une volonté incroyable et toujours prêt à rendre service. On se souviendra toujours du soir où il est venu souper chez nous— un simple souper de spaghetti, mais un moment rempli de douceur et de respect, à son image.
Jonathan laissera un grand vide, surtout auprès de mes enfants qui l’appréciaient énormément.
Barry, Sylvie et Catherine, nous pensons à vous de tout cœur dans ce moment difficile. Que l’amour et les souvenirs partagés avec Jonathan vous apportent un peu de réconfort. Nos pensées vous accompagnent, et nous vous offrons nos plus sincères condoléances. 💐
Our heartfelt condolences Barry, Sylvie and Catherine. Please know you are in our thoughts at this devastating time. We hope you can find comfort in your many cherished memories of Jonathan and keep them and him close to your hearts each day.
Barry,Sylvie,Catherine
I was so saddened to learn of Johnny’s passing,his legacy will live on in the hearts of all who knew him.
Please accept my heartfelt condolences
Such a wonderfully written obituary. It has totally summed up the life of Johnny Bettles and his amazing family. It was the short version of a young life well lived that was taken too soon. Johnny would have been so proud and I know that the family is as well. Rest in peace Johnny.
Les mots nous manquent…
A toute la famille, nous vous offrons nos plus sincères sympathies.
Famille Cliche
Sylvie, Barry, Catherine and Max,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our hearts are with you at this terrible time.
My deepest condolences to the family. To young. Will miss the chats I had with Jonathan when he was out and about taking care of the various properties around the neighbourhood.
My condolences to Barry, Sylvie, Catherine, and family. Johnny was mature beyond his age, he was kind and had a big heart. Johnny will be missed.
I’m so sorry to hear about Jonathan’s passing. Sylvie, I can’t begin to imagine the sorrow you and your family are feeling, but please know that my thoughts are with you during this difficult time. May his memory be blessing.
Our deepest sympathy to the Bettles family. May your fond memories bring you relief at this difficult time.
Dale Stephenson and Sandra Coleman
Deepest sympathy. 🙏
Our deepest sympathies to you Barry and your family.
Cher Jonathan,
Tu nous as quittés trop tôt mais tu nous as laissés tout un exemple de vie: celle d’un jeune attentif, responsable et combien agréable avec qui partager! Repose en paix!
Jim et moi offrons nos sincères condoléances à la famille! Puisse le courage et l’esprit de Jonathan vous aider à vivre “ce passage obligé”!
Jim Zamprelli/Madeleine Coderre
Our sincere condolences and deepest sympathies to Sylvie, Barry & family. Johnny will forever be with all who knew him in the many fond memories he created.
Sam, Henry, Jill & Steven
Barry, Sylvie, and Catherine, please accept my heartfelt condolences on the loss of your son, brother, and dear friend, Johnny.
May he eternally rest in peace and find comfort in knowing what an immense impact he made on the people he met.
Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time. Our deepest condolences.
Barry, Sylvie and family,
Extending you love and support during this unimaginable heartbreak. Johnny was sweet, respectful, kind, and as Barry often said “so good”. I hope your cherished memories will bring you comfort and the support of the many people who care will give you strength.
In deepest sympathy,
Susanne and William
C’est avec une immense tristesse que nous avons appris le décès de Johnny. Nous envoyons nos sincères condoléances à toute la famille.
Cela m’a beaucoup attristée d’apprendre le départ précipité de Jonathan. Je me souviens très bien de lui alors qu’il était élève à des Voyageurs. Je me souviens de son sourire contagieux, de sa grande gentillesse et de ses yeux remplis de sagesse. Je tiens à vous offrir mes plus sincères sympathies, Barry, Sylvie et Catherine ainsi qu’à ses nombreux amies et amis. Vous êtes dans mes pensées,
Pascale
We are so sad to hear of the passing of Johnny. He was a special young man and we have many special memories of him. Barry and Sylvie, we are thinking of you at this difficult time.
I’m so very sorry. I had the pleasure of having Jonathan in my Level 1 Carpentry Math class last winter; he was a fine and smart young man. I offer my sincere condolences to his family and friends.
If the world had more children like Johnny, Hard working, honest and caring, We would live in a much better world.
Your impact on our family will never be forgotten.
Rest Peacefully Johnny
From: The Taylors
Our deepest condolences to the Bettles family. We will forever cherish the fond memories we have of Johnny. He was truly a great individual.
So sorry for the loss of your Jonathan.
Our sincere condolences to you all at this sad time.
Meeting him this time last year was an honour to have met his beautiful soul.
The service was a touching tribute.
Rest in peace dear Johnny
Denise and
Taylor
Barry and Sylvie,
Barry I am so incredibly sorry for the loss and pain you are experiencing. I wish I would have met Johnny but he sounded absolutely wonderful (like you Barry). The eulogies were well done and gave me a sense of who he was. Have been thinking of you and hope you find comfort in each other and his memories.
Tammy Heise
Barry,Sylvie and Catherine we are so sorry to hear about your loss of Johnny. There are no words to describe the pain you must be feeling right now. Your family is in our thoughts and we are sending you all love and warmth
Lin & Bert
My condolences to Barry, Sylvie and family. My thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Nathalie and Marc
Merci pour cette vidéo…..malheureusement je ne savais pas qu’il est décédé….Condolences to his father Barry and Chantal…
Hey kid, been thinking about you alot. I can;t bare the thought of working on my front yard, It doesn’t feel right. Happier thoughts, I just adopted two Cockatiels and named one after you. Grayson and Johnny. Johnny is the smart one, almost escaped from the cage by figgering out how to open the slidding door.
Miss ya, your friend and client Jackie.
Dear Bettle Family,,
I am sorry that this is coming so late, but I struggle with what to say to you at this time…
Johnny was such a great kid. A little on the quiet side, not unlike his father but always ihappy and smiling.
It was so great getting to watch him play hockey with Randy. He was my favourite defenceman! I will always remember his freckly face looking up through the mask of his hockey helmet!
Please know that I am thinking of you guys every day.
Sincerely,
Anne